How can I tell if I’m being ‘scammed’?
Debbie Harris
Aug 2025 • 2 min read
How can I tell if I’m being ‘scammed’?
The very short answer to this question is that sometimes ‘you can’t’
Not very reassuring is it?
Scams (and fraud attempts) are now so sophisticated and ‘believable’ that it is often impossible to tell from first glance whether something is genuine or not – whether it’s an email, a text message, a phone call, a private message on an app. In just the last few months I can think of a scarily large number of occasions when I have had to channel my inner Sherlock – a flavour of the wide-ranging nature of some of these:
~ a client received a text message querying a transaction we were organising for him … my antennae tingled. We worked fast and contacted the client using all methods available to us … he was grateful for our vigilance on his behalf, and I am very relieved to report that fortunately the message was authentic, but it was jolly stressful at the time for all concerned
~ my credit card provider texted me to ask whether I had authorised a £3,000+ payment to an overseas firm (I had not) – so I immediately got on the phone to them and I am glad to report that MBNA’s fraud department was excellent and resolved very quickly (all whilst I was on the phone to them) – card cancelled and all recent transactions checked thoroughly
~ a client called to express concern about a telephone call she had received from ‘her Bank’ regarding a transfer of funds (fortunately this was legitimate as well, but the client was very upset because as soon as she had done what she was asked to do, she thought she had fallen for a scam). We were able to reassure her and to let her know what steps she needed to take to ensure her funds were ’safe’
~ a relative of mine purchased something via Shopify which turned out to be a scam – as soon as he realised this, he reached out to Shopify who were hopeless, but his bank applied for a ‘clawback’ to return his money
~ a client had her HMRC government gateway account hacked – this is a slightly different type of case, but a fraud attempt nonetheless. No money was lost thankfully on this occasion, but she did have to set up a new government gateway account (which as you may be aware – is something of a headache!)
So what are our ‘top tips’ for spotting/avoiding scams and fraud:
- BEFORE THE FACT – ACT SLOWLY (take your time to ensure that any messages you receive are authentic – make your default position “any unsolicited message should not be trusted”!
- AFTER THE FACT – ACT QUICKLY (this is key – sometimes if you are quick enough, you can stop the scam/fraud before you have lost any money)
There are a myriad of other ways to protect yourself from scams/fraud and you can get some great advice here https://www.actionfraud.police.uk/
If you are ever in doubt – PLEASE check in with us – we will do whatever we can to help.

