A life worth living?

Dominic Thomas
May 2025  •  2 min read

A life worth living?

If you watch the news on a regular basis, it is hard to shake the sense of despair at the state of the world and its leaders, who appear to have learned nothing from history. Social media as we all know is awash with fiction posed as fact and opinion posed as expertise and many seem all too willing to believe their eyes.

The worlds of literature, television, music, arts and film are currently experiencing something of an appetite for dystopian tales of apocalyptic disaster, be it environmental, climate or more deliberately-introduced political intention.

A new series to tackle this showing on the Paramount network is Paradise. I won’t spoil it for you other than to say that like most others of its kind, it prompts us to ask ourselves “would it be worth surviving?”.  Perhaps a better way to consider this is the question – what makes life worth living?

When phrased that way, I wonder whether there may be a question beneath the question. What indeed does make life worth living and does there come a point when it is not? Is this a strand of the current discussion around euthanasia and assisted dying?

I appreciate that this is a highly inflammatory topic with fierce arguments either side, but the mere fact that the discussion is now more mainstream suggests that there is need for the debate. Perhaps this is one of the consequences of the pandemic, when there certainly was an attitude displayed by many about a “herd” (we being the herd) and a ‘less than’ value ascribed to different people’s lives for a variety of reasons. To be blunt, there was probably a gnats wing of difference between some of these attitudes and those of German “Nationalists” in the 1930s.

I am not about to become embroiled in the debate, simply noting an observation that the discussion about what makes life worth living is more within everyday parlance. However, one of the challenges I often pose to you, our clients, is “what do you want from life?”. It may take different forms, but in essence, I’m asking you about the lifestyle you have and want to maintain, the experiences you wish to have and the skills you wish to develop. In short, what brings you contentment and joy? It seems to me that this is an entirely appropriate and reasonable question to pose.

As I am sure you know, we structure your financial plan around your values and the objectives that you determine important to you. Anecdotal experience means that I encourage you to ‘front load’ your retirement with many of these bucket list experiences; health is something that most of us will battle with as we age, reducing our ability to do things that we might currently take for granted. As health and independence deteriorate, this is where the question of ‘a life worth living’ resurfaces and will elicit different responses from each of us for different reasons and set within a context.

We know that life is brief, so carpe diem, here’s to your very good health!

Here is the trailer for the 8-part series Paradise starring Sterling Brown.

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Joy and Suffering

Joy and Suffering

Joy is the new movie by David O. Russell, bringing together key players from the 2012 OSCAR winning film “Silver Linings Playbook”. Joy (played by Jennifer Lawrence) is based on the story of Joy Mangano who invented the miracle mop.

The timing of the movie is pertinent (apart from award season) there is a growing unease about capitalism, consumerism and the American Dream. Joy Mangano is in one sense the definitive American Dream, and within the film is portrayed as a woman with a conscience and big heart.

The film is set in the dysfunctional family unit, where Joy embodies the sandwich generation, holding a household together of her parents, her children and a successful divorce. I am not sure how much of this is artistic license, but Joy’s former husband remains an employee of her business.

Entrepreneur?

Anyone that has ever started their own business will recognise many of the struggles and gigantic mistakes that she makes. One of the more pertinent is where and how to seek proper expert advice and encouragement. It’s also a movie for women whose struggles are invariably ignored, overlooked or simply neglected (by the movie industry and society at large).

A strong OSCAR winning cast give the film a sure footing, who relay the story carefully. Joy Mangano and her business Ingenious Designs LLC is now very much a success story, the miracle mop has sold in excess of $10million a year – but it’s not even her most successful product – huggable hangers. Her net worth was reported to be around $50 million in 2015.

Whilst there may well be some factual inaccuracies, the story is compelling and I thoroughly enjoyed the film. If you run a business or have any aspiration to do so, it’s one to seek out. Here is one of the subsequent Miracle Mop videos with Joy Mangano.

Dominic Thomas
Solomons IFA

You can read more articles about Pensions, Wealth Management, Retirement, Investments, Financial Planning and Estate Planning on my blog which gets updated every week. If you would like to talk to me about your personal wealth planning and how we can make you stay wealthier for longer then please get in touch by calling 08000 736 273 or email info@solomonsifa.co.uk

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